Cruising Basics

Cruising is a way for finding anonymous sex partners in public using discreet signals and cues. Cruising is a spontaneous act and typically doesn't involve chatting beforehand to schedule a timed meeting; it is an in-person activity and the first time you see a guy will also be when you decide whether or not to hook up with him.

Cruising was popular in the 1970s and 1980s when society was not as tolerant toward homosexuality. With the increase of gay bars, clubs and attractions—along with the use of online profiles and hook-up apps like Grindr and Tinder—cruising has become a lost art.

A popular cruising area will have many guys already present (during the right time) and you just have to show up to cruise them. Unfortunately, crowded cruising areas have become rare and aren't available everywhere. Fortunately, cruising itself can be done anywhere. Keep in mind; cruising does not guarantee that you will find action. Sometimes you may show up to an empty cruising area or not see any guys your type and that is completely normal. Try again another time.

Check out these additional resources to learn more about cruising, or just hit next below:

• What cruising looks like
• A Simple Guide to Cruising
• Make Cruising Popular Anywhere
• Cruising Signals & Cues
• Cruising Spots
• Cruising Safety
• Cruising Etiquette
• Cruising Spots

Next: What Cruising Looks Like

Updated October 14, 2026